As with all revolutions, the aging revolution involves changing the language. The very way we speak of aging is in the process of shifting. Here are some of the new terms that reflect the change in how we view aging: creative aging, sage-ing, spiritual eldering, aging as a path to spiritual awakening, lifelong learning, elder adventure, conscious aging, the third age, the second journey, mitigated aging, new elderhood, and positive elderhood.
As editor of this anthology, I want to share with you that the book has already changed my view of aging, and we haven’t even gone to press. Simply editing the work of the visionary contributors shifted my thinking and perspective. And it brought to light the subtle age-ism I was carrying within me. Opposed to all isms as I am and have long been, I was, however, unaware that I was harboring this one. Through working on the book, I discovered that I was carrying a highly negative view of aging, even though I have great respect for elders and elder wisdom.
Two years ago, when I turned 50, I began to get mail from AARP. I would toss the unopened membership invitations into the recycling as quickly as they arrived. There are so many things wrong with that simple ritual of denial and the beliefs it reflects (Audacious Aging explores such issues), but suffice it to say here that it was not an act of self-love and it undermined who I am, all that I know and have accomplished, and my very future. It revealed a belief in a future of limitation rather than expansion. I saw aging as a shrinking of options and a gradual loss of everything. What a dismal view! I was not alone in this view. It is the societal view of aging under which we currently operate.
How wonderful to discover that it is a delusional view! The contributors to Audacious Aging produced a sea change in me, as I’m sure it will for many who read it. The blinders created by our youth culture have been removed, and I am excited about the future—for me and for all of us. I am excited to be part of the revolution that is bringing elders back to the vital, rightful place of elders in our society, and I look forward to seeing what this transformation will bring about in our world.